8 Different Personality Types of Men
I found this article on the following website and it had a great article on the 8 different personality types of men. I thought it was interesting, and seemed to be pretty dead on.
When I was younger I was very attracted to the Bad Boy types…now that I am older I like a combination of the Seducer, the Artist, and the Successful Guy. My preference is the Artist/ Successful Guy combo…which is rare..lol…
**Please note the picture of Puffy is for illustration purposes only! But I think this article might explain why this man has 6 kids by 3 women..lol**
What kind of man do you like? Which one are you?
THE BAD BOY
Someone who’s dangerous and thrilling to be around. Bad boys are everything from gangsters to bikers to some rock and roll musicians. These guys are usually tough, dress tough, and act tough as often as possible. They drink, smoke, get tattoos, and generally demonstrate in every way possible that they’re from the wrong side of the tracks, and your mother would not approve. A lot of these guys wind up beating their girlfriends and spending time in jail.
There is an addictive emotional rush being around a guy that could literally do ANYTHING. Anyway, I wouldn’t recommend being the extreme version of this one. You can get a tattoo and buy a Harley and act all bad, but it’s really not making to you a better person. I have to mention that this personality type is the one that women are most MAGNETICALLY attracted to. Again, this is because of the addictive rush that comes from being around them.
Someone who’s fun and exciting to be around. The Adventurer is constantly looking for the next fun experience. Adventurers love to go surfing, skiing, racing, bungee-jumping, and skydiving. Think James Bond. They are fearless. Instead of being bad to get thrills, they usually like to do crazy things to get thrills. Their appeal is much the same as the Bad Boy, except that these guys don’t usually wind up beating their women. Women like to be around them because they drive fast, go interesting places, and generally have a sense of ‘adventure’ about everything they do.
They have the attitude of “What adventure is waiting around the next corner” – even if they’re just going out to lunch. Women are attracted to them because they are a kick to be around – and they often have more than one woman at a time. And women totally accept this from them. Women usually understand on an unconscious level that this is the type of guy that loves more than one woman. They have extreme optimism, which women LOVE. Again, Adventurers are usually in control in relationships, and can never be tamed. Most of the Adventurers types are known to cheat on their girlfriends.
Someone who is sensual and sexy and makes her feel the same. Seducers are all about women. They understand women completely. As a matter of fact, I sometimes think that maybe they were women in past lives or something. To most men, a Seducer seems bizarre, and even slightly homosexual. They do things that are pretty far out. Watch the movie ‘Don Juan DeMarco’ with Johnny Depp. This movie is the epitome of the Seducer. Don Juan can only see the world through his romantic perspective, which is magnetic to women. Seducers are usually submissive, as they are constantly pleasing the woman, and paying careful attention to her needs.
The flip side is that as soon as they have gotten what they want from a woman, they’re gone. Sure, they may come back for romantic evenings, but they are not often around for the long term.
THE ARTIST (Musician, Poet)
Someone who moves her emotions and is enigmatic and complex. Why do women love guys who have complex, introverted personalities? I believe that the answer lies inside the psyche of women. Women like to have challenges, and they like to help people. The Artist personality is both complex and in need of help and understanding.Most Artists see the world much differently than other people. They look at tree and see a giant feather duster, or they see a color and can taste it.
Women can usually understand the Artist’s expressions better than other men can. And they are usually very attracted to these personalities for this very reason. The Artist needs someone to understand them, and there’s always a woman who needs someone to be understood. Most Artists are not in control of the woman in their lives, because they’re not in control of THEMSELVES. They are usually disorganized, and completely unaware of time, etc.
THE SUCCESSFUL GUY
Someone who provides a great lifestyle and stability. The successful guy brings money and stability to the table. Most women are trying to find one of these guys to marry them. The way to demonstrate that you’re a Successful Guy is to drive a nice car, live in a nice house, take her to nice dinners, and buy her gifts.
Women love them because they represent the ultimate goal of most women: Stability. Most wives would rather have a stable $30, 000 a month income than have an unpredictable artists income.
So Mr. Successful Guy gives them that ‘Security Blanket.’ Buy yourself a copy of ‘The Rules’ – the one that’s written for women. This is the type of guy that they’re teaching women to trap.
Someone who tells her what to do and controls her. Some women are very attracted to controlling men who treat them like little girls. Some women take this to an extreme and date men much older than them.
I don’t know if this is an accurate observation, but a lot of really attractive, powerful women are attracted to men who control them and treat them like little girls. My opinion is that some women resent men who bow down to them, and have no respect for them.
If you’re interested in learning more about this mindset, read the book ‘Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns’ by Philip Miller. The first 50 or 60 pages are a very interesting discussion of dominance and submission.
The following 2 personality types are not so appealing to women and at times they can act as a ‘women repelent’.
THE REGULAR GUY
Someone who is down to earth, loyal and stable. The Regular Guys in the world don’t get enough credit in my opinion. The fact is, most Regular Guys wind up in long term relationships with women that are like them – regular.
Regular guys work hard, run household errands and watch a lot of TV. They may start out being fun and adventurous when they’re younger, but they usually settle into a more boring life. I’m sure you know a bunch of regular guys. They’re married with 2.3 kids and a rectangular 3 bedroom, 2 bath house in a subdivision.
Regular Guys may start out in control of a relationship, but in almost EVERY case, the woman eventually takes control. The women starts nagging, telling him what to do, etc.
ASS KISSING GUY
Someone who gives her whatever she wants. Ass Kissing Guy is my favorite! Ass Kissing Guy follows his woman around saying “OK dear, whatever you want” and “I’m sorry” and “What’s wrong sweetie?”
Ass Kissing Guy likes to use submissive body language, not look people in the eye, and act passive aggressive. Women who are dominant and controlling like to have an Ass Kissing Guy around as a boyfriend for awhile – sometimes they even marry them. But it’s not a happy life, and I wouldn’t recommend it.